Which just do not indicate the reasons for the divorce in the statement of claim. Indeed, they can be anything - from non-serious and insignificant (as it may seem from the outside) to global ones. Which ones are the most common? And what are the best reasons for divorce in a statement of claim?
Divorce proceedings and its specifics
To begin with, I would like to talk about the divorce itself. The process is unpleasant and for many is very painful. And for others, on the contrary, it is a reason for joy. It is a sad fact, but Russia is on the list of countries where the most divorces occur. But now this is not about that.
How is a divorce formalized and where? Which of the documents do you need to provide? Everything is not as complicated as it might seem at first glance. The first thing to do is go to court or to the registry office. In the second case, everything takes shape much faster, but in the registry office it is not always possible to terminate the marriage. And then there remains a divorce through the courts.
As a matter of fact, there may not be any problems with registration, but this is only if both the husband and the wife agree to divorce. If this is the decision of one, it will be difficult. It will be quite difficult to get a divorce if the couple has minor children. Here the question is solved regarding which parent the child will remain with. Still often, disputes are caused by the division of property. And, of course, an alimentary question.
Divorce is a responsible and life-changing process. We must remember this, and it is desirable even before the couple decides to bond their relationship by marriage.
Base
Divorce through the court is based on certain reasons. They must be indicated in the filed claim. But not everyone knows what to write. The wife or husband is faced with the question of how to correctly indicate the reason for the divorce in an official document. It is necessary for the judge to understand everything as it is. That is right.
That is why it is important to be able to indicate the reasons for the divorce in the statement of claim. And here it is necessary to work on the syllable, to distance oneself from emotions and feelings (which can be quite difficult in such situations) and focus.
Personal motives
The main causes of divorce are usually hidden in feelings. They could grow cold or even develop into hostility, sometimes into hatred. But the most common that relates to the category of personal reasons is treason, adultery.
Suppose a husband and wife understand that love has passed and their relationship is more friendly. It seems to be not so bad, but to keep a marriage under such circumstances does not make sense. Everything here can be arranged in accordance with the basic principles of family law. They are indicated in the first article of the corresponding code. It says that family ties should be built on mutual love. So, as a reason for divorce, the statement of claim may include the following: “Preserving the family is not possible, since the couple lost their feelings of mutual love, which is the basis for creating marriage ties.” This is in case of mutual agreement. If only one thinks so, then a statement must be written in the first person: “I believe that preserving the family is not possible, because I stopped experiencing love for my spouse (- y) ”. Of course, this is all very briefly, but the essence is approximately clear.
Lies, infidelity, disrespect
The main causes of divorce lie in personal relationships between spouses. And one of the most, unfortunately, widespread is treason and deceit. These are very painful, offensive and humiliating reasons for divorce.Statistics show that they are in first place among all. It is very painful to realize that your soulmate, with whom a joint decision was made to create a family, suddenly secretly shares himself with someone else. Therefore, not everyone even decides to indicate this motive in a lawsuit. It's a shame and a shame. Therefore, many do with streamlined formulations. However, this is at the same time one of the most compelling reasons. The wording for the lawsuit may be as follows: “I consider the preservation of the family impossible, because my spouse did not remain faithful. This degrades my dignity and, moreover, contradicts the provision of the Family Code of the Russian Federation that a family is always built on mutual love and respect. ”
It is only necessary to remember that emotions must be avoided - for them there is no place in the official document. It is necessary to adhere to a dry style of presentation. But at the trial it will be possible to speak out - this is not prohibited by law.
Household motives
The main causes of divorce are also hidden in everyday life. It can be anything. Alcoholism of one of the spouses, drug addiction, laziness and lack of desire to participate in family affairs, raising children, etc. Violence, by the way, also belongs to the category of domestic causes. And it is worth noting that often none of these motives exists separately. An alcoholic husband who does nothing at home and drinks money, or an egoist spouse who has completely forgotten about the existence of a wife and children — this is common in our lives.
In court, such cases are resolved quickly. The lawsuit states everything as it is, only in the official language. For example: “Preserving the family is not possible, because my spouse abuses alcohol daily and is violent towards me and the children.” If the case is very serious (the husband beats his wife), then it is best to attach to the lawsuit a certificate received by the police. Beatings must be removed. A medical examination is extremely necessary in this case.
Financial difficulties
The reasons for a divorce from a wife or husband are still sometimes due to a lack of money. Of course, it’s easier to deal with this than with treason or violence. One of the spouses does not work anywhere and, roughly speaking, sits on the neck of a chosen one or chosen one. Sometimes this is due to one of the types of dependence, but ordinary parasitism is also not a rare case.
Such situations in the lawsuits are described as openly and honestly as possible. You just have to say that the spouse puts the family in a difficult financial situation. And it is imperative to clarify that he (s) also does not do anything at home - does not raise children, does not conduct housekeeping, because if this is done in good faith, the basis will already be very shaky.
Intimate motives
Interestingly, sexual problems are also often a reason for divorce. Some people indicate in lawsuits that their spouse does not satisfy their physical needs. However, experts believe that such motives in official documents should not be described in any way - they should be forgotten at all. Why? Because the Family Code of the Russian Federation considers lawsuits in which people refer to the absence of high feelings - love, fidelity, respect. But sexuality is not protected by law. And besides, such issues are not accepted for public display. Still, this is a very intimate topic. And she can seriously injure her husband.
Pros and cons
Well, the reasons may be different. However, before going to the registry office or to the court, you should carefully weigh the pros and cons. Nobody argues: sometimes the behavior of the chosen one or the chosen one suggests that it would be just wonderful to stop all this. But we are all not perfect. It’s worth considering: maybe this is just such a period in a relationship? And do not break everything like that? Maybe it's better to help your spouse change? After all, he is also not easy. Or review something in yourself?
Remember that you fell in love with him or her, as everything was good before - after all, it was not just that a decision was made to bond the relationship by marriage.In general, do not rush. Do not immediately run to court - it is best to deal with the peaceful resolution of problems and save the relationship.
