How to understand that a person became rich recently and did not put much effort into it? It turns out very simple. Such people are betrayed by their behavior. Millionaires, who still did not have large funds at their disposal, simply do not know how to carefully manage capital, save it and increase it. They begin to literally make money everywhere, and this behavioral tendency is especially pronounced during a romantic date.
Stories that convincingly prove this were shared in an interview by elite matchmaker Amy Andersen of the Linx Dating agency in San Francisco.
Amy has been working with Silicon Valley millionaires for several years. Of course, she was able to notice a few interesting details that immediately reveal the "newfound" of a person’s wealth and prevent him from gaining personal happiness.
What do rich people do wrong?
According to Amy, the "ordinary millionaire" from Silicon Valley, who the other day had no money even for his own house, is incredibly similar to a peacock. These people constantly admire themselves and turn communication on a first date into an endless series of flashes of boasting.
And this does not allow to know them, to understand what personal qualities they possess. As a rule, despite the “splendor, chic and feathers” on the second date, no one agrees with them. Except for those who are initially only interested in capital, and not a person.
How do they behave?
Imagine going on a blind date. What are you waiting for? That you can meet an interesting person, chat, have a great time and, possibly, start a relationship.
However, if you have to meet a recently grown rich guy from Silicon Valley, then all this will not happen.
The newly-minted millionaires turn a simple acquaintance into a show whose purpose is to demonstrate their financial capabilities. At the same time, the tastes and preferences of the one with whom they are acquainted are completely not interested in the rich. Each rendezvous is carried out according to the principle "the more expensive, the better."
However, these people don’t show fantasies in organizing dates, they just buy ready-made packages of services in dating agencies.
Why is that bad?
Narcissism and a tendency to boast are inherent in all people to one degree or another. If a person managed to get rich, then why not demonstrate it to him? Moreover, such broad gestures can be regarded as a manifestation of generosity.
However, the problem is that the squandering of newly minted millionaires is neither boast nor generosity. It is dictated only by the desire to admire your own abilities and demonstrate to others your importance. In other words, this is how the “poor complex” manifests itself.
For example, if the most ordinary person suddenly finds a large sum, then what does he do most often? He goes to the nearest shopping center and buys everything he sees.
This is what newly minted millionaires do on dates. They literally do not see or hear the person with whom they spend time. Acquaintance for them is just another purchase, nothing more.
And this inevitably leads to the fact that next to them are people who are interested only in the possibility of spending money, and not in creating a family or in a tender romantic relationship.