Each of us has failures, we all make mistakes, after which, as it seems to us, we can never recover. But even after committing monstrous mistakes, our life does not end. What needs to be done in order to recover from such mistakes?
Think about the future
Our mistakes always seem to us more widespread than to other people. So step back a step, take a deep breath and tell yourself that you will surely cope with it. If your mistake is not made in the medical or legal field, then it is not vital. Think about what the people you trust the most will say: relatives, friends, mentors, work colleagues. You can even call them and consult how to act in this or that situation. Remember that sooner or later everything will be forgotten.
Take responsibility
Once you realize that you have made a big mistake, take responsibility. People will respect you for that. The sooner you take responsibility for the mistake, the faster you can move on. If you do not, then make an even bigger mistake.
Forgive yourself
Everyone makes mistakes, so the best thing you can do in this situation is to forgive yourself. If you find a way to forgive yourself, you can calmly think about how to fix the situation: whether it is a project that has started to work poorly, or a relationship with another person who has reached an impasse. It can be very difficult, but it will allow you to forget about your mistake faster.
Do it right
Pay a fine, apologize, do everything right to correct your mistake. You may be very hurt in the short run, but in the end you will be proud to have done the right thing. You will be able to quickly come to your senses and not get hung up on the perfect, if you realize that you have done everything possible to correct the situation.