Each woman develops her own relationship with a bra: someone is relieved to take it off as soon as she steps over the threshold of the house; someone has his last hopes for a visual breast enlargement; someone due to the large size of the bust without him simply can not exist normally. Wearing this wardrobe item is a personal matter for every woman. The law does not spell out that it needs to be worn, but for some reason, disputes arise regularly because of the bra.
Call to the boss
I work in a modern company where employees are not required to follow a strict dress code. In the summer, no one will look at you askance if you come without pantyhose, and men can afford shorts. Therefore, each of my colleagues comes to the office in what is convenient and does not constrain movements. This went on for a long time, until one day I came to work without a bra.
On the second day, the boss called to her home and said, bluntly, that I was violating the office dress code. What are you speaking about? In our company, after all, a free form of clothing!
It turned out that the look of my nipples under the clothes aroused the whole team: neither men nor women can react normally. And the boss herself, it seems, hurt too.
What is wrong with the female breast?
But why? Why do we easily expose our arms or legs, but cannot cover our breasts with a piece of cloth without using a bra? This is the same ordinary part of the body that not only women have, but also men. Some of my male colleagues, by the way, have more breasts than mine. When walking, she hesitates, everyone sees nipples, but for some reason they are not called to the authorities on the carpet for this reason.
What is wrong with the female breast? If it is covered, then it hardly looks worse than, for example, unshaven armpits. But it is unlikely that the absence of hair removal is the reason for the moralizing of the directorate.
My attitude to bra
From the very teenage age, I did not have a relationship with a bra: it was terribly uncomfortable, and in the summer it was also hot. Even expensive seamless underwear crushed me and caused a wild desire to rip it off immediately.
When I grew up and realized that my breasts of the second size would remain so, I began to walk without a bra. You can’t imagine how cool it is: it doesn’t interfere, it doesn’t tighten, the body is free, and even breathing is somehow easier. Since I had nothing to especially hold on to, I was absolutely not afraid of sagging skin or other aesthetic defects that might arise.
I never had the thought that the absence of a bra under my clothes may seem to others a call for sexual action. After all, no one has erotic fantasies looking at the elbow under the sweater. And if the authorities claim that my appearance distracts employees from work and makes them think about intimacy, then it's not my fault.
Schoolgirls against a bra
As it turned out, the problem of wearing a bra occurs in many women and girls around the world.
3 years ago, an American schoolgirl was suspended from school for a day because there was no bra under her clothes. She was called to the director and reported back in all severity. The girl, of course, listened to the directors, but, returning home, posted a photo in a T-shirt without a bra on a social network with the hashtag #nobranoproblem. Already on the same day, schoolgirls appeared like-minded, and the flash mob in the photo without a bra swept around the world.
A year later, another American high school student was sent home because she did not hesitate to come to school without a bra.
Workplace scandal
Customs officers at Cologne Airport are also prohibited from appearing at the workplace without a bra. Although there girls are dressed in a strict form made of thick fabric. And to understand that a woman without a bra can not immediately. The employees filed a lawsuit, considering this a restriction of their freedoms, but lost: the judge considered the administration’s demand to be quite appropriate.
This incident caused a public outcry, hundreds of women took to the streets of large cities without a bra, but achieved nothing.
A golf club employee was fired in Canada last year for refusing to wear this underwear under a work polo. The woman was asked to wear a vest over the shirt to hide her breasts from the prying eyes of the club members. However, she preferred to remain without work than to change her principles.
Breast freedom!
A few years ago, Chidera Eggery, a fashion blogger, made a lot of noise. The fact is that the girl has very large breasts. When she said that she was no longer wearing a bra, thousands of accusations rained down on her, which boiled down to the fact that her breasts of size and shape cannot be covered: supposedly, she looks ugly. However, Chidera turned a blind eye to this misunderstanding, and now she appears everywhere in clothes with a deep neckline and without a bra.
In London, lives 34-year-old Michelle Court. The woman has magnificent forms, but her breasts are not so big. Once she decided to conduct a social experiment and for a day refused a hated bra.
There was only 4 degrees of heat on the street, but the path to work was very close, so Michelle decided not to wear outerwear. In the cold, her breasts took on the corresponding appearance, which greatly encouraged the men passing by. Many smiled at her, others turned around after her. But the women only squinted, or rolled their eyes, or expressed their displeasure in other ways.
In the office, Michelle noticed that she began to look more often in her reflection in the glass walls of classrooms. Perhaps this was due to the fact that she herself was aware that now, while walking, her breasts are wavering more.
During a coffee break, the woman went to a coffee shop on the ground floor of the building. At that time, Barista was talking with one of the visitors. To immediately put all the points on I, Michelle immediately declared that today she decided not to put on a bra. The woman immediately expressed her admiration for the act of Michelle, and the shape of her breast, and the barista did not take money for coffee.
Subsequently, the woman several times appeared at the workplace without a bra, however, she did this no longer for the sake of the experiment, but in a fit of mood.
To wear or not to wear a bra is a personal matter for everyone. But for some reason, it is women who advocate wearing this part of underwear, although they, like no one else, should understand that without a bra it is much freer and more convenient.