This is a question that everyone is asked constantly. Why do men find their secretaries attractive? It is not known whether any scientific research has been conducted regarding the proportion of men who like their assistants, but this causes a lot of different thoughts. For example:
- Not every woman who works as a secretary is young and beautiful.
- Not every man looks sexy.
- Not every woman wants to seduce her boss.
- Not every person is able to be unfaithful to his partner.
Nevertheless, there are such things as office novels, and sometimes it happens that the boss and his secretary become sexually attached to each other. There are even cases when a couple suddenly finds themselves in an ambiguous situation by higher managers, and lovers lose their jobs.
Such relationships are often found in the plots of various films and series, most often with a comedic bias. But in real life this also happens, and quite often. Why does this occur?
So, suppose that some men find their secretaries attractive and seek to get in touch with them. And also that some secretaries are voluntary partners in this matter. Why is this happening? There can be several possible explanations.
Availability
Busy executives may well spend more time with their secretaries or other office employees than with their wives. Assuming that the working day lasts from nine in the morning until six in the evening, the time spent on a trip to work is one hour, and the sleep time is eight hours, then there are already 17 hours out of 24. If a man comes home in the evening, he spends at least with his children for some time, and on weekends to relax or play sports, the actual time spent with his wife is not so great.
Position of excellence
The boss takes a position of authority over the secretary. He tells her what to do all day and she will follow his instructions. This excites some men who may well dream of taking this relationship out of the office to the bedroom. Wives generally do not like being told what to do, but secretaries are used to it. This is just male weakness.
Jealousy
A marriage that is going through hard times can lead to a man coming up with a bad plan. He can imagine that if he makes his wife a little jealous, she will become more adaptable to his desires. To do this, in their opinion, it is necessary to create the impression that in his life there is another potential sexual partner who competes with her. This is stupid, but it is not uncommon.
Two are needed for the union
A woman working for an influential boss can assume that she gains a special status if she becomes available to him not only as a business person. Friendliness for your boss is not bad, but some ladies go too far in this direction and give out signals that are perceived as sexual. Also keep in mind that the office environment is unlikely to consist of single male bosses who have single female secretaries. There is a competition to win the favor of the leader, and some ladies use different tricks to win the game.
This is a natural unconscious instinct.
In addition, Mother Nature’s plan is for any male being to seduce the female in order to produce the next generation. This is an instinct that works for people.And when social conditions at the workplace bring together people of the opposite sex who are pretty to each other for a long time, they only help nature to realize the plan!